
Est. 1998

Posted by Tiffani at 4:03 PM 1 comments
I am ready for a holiday! Especially an eating Holiday! Yea. It is just nice to have the kids out of school with no schedules and just be together. (remind me I said that at the end of the weekend.)
To get us in the "Thankfulness" mood, this week we have asked the kids at dinner every night to tell us something that happened to them that day that they were thankful for. We started on Sunday, and it went fine. Monday I worked and when I came home the spirit in the home was not the peaceful, ready for family home evening, atmosphere that I was hoping for. Tanner had gotten in trouble for lying to his dad and then the night had gone in a downward spiral from there. So when we sat down to dinner and it was my turn to share my gratitude experience I told about a lady that had come to the dentist office and was so grateful for everything and how she had set such a good example for me. When it came to Tanner's turn he said, "nothing, I am grateful for nothing." I just let it go because I knew he was just bitter at his dad.
The next night, Tuesday, I had made some great personal efforts in keeping my cool with the "ungrateful" kid. I had to ask him 5 or 6 times to empty the dishwasher, clean up his room, vacuum the front room etc. . . And by that many times I am ready to lose it. . . . but I don't. We sit down to dinner and Luke goes first and then me. I am about to say what I am grateful for when RJ pipes up and in this exasperated tone says "mom, don't tell us about the lady at the dentist office again." (apparently I dragged on a little too much for his taste). (So I kept it short).
When it comes to Tanner, he says
"Nothing again, I am not grateful for anything." I just looked at him for a minute thinking, I am going to ship you off to some third world country where they have nothing and then maybe you can find something to be grateful for. But I am unfortunately the only grown up at the table (Kory was at Youngmen's) so I have to be mature and I decide to just ignore it and move on to the next person, when Tanner speaks up again.
"Wait I have something to be grateful for. I am grateful for the HOPE that someday my parents will be nice to me!"
Yep, pack your bags buddy! And who thought of this stupid idea to let your kids voice their "gratitude" at the dinner table? Just eating, no talking, from here on out.
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